Embrace the rounDD’s

Over the weekend I bought my first bras that were not minimizing. Just regular bras. No restrictions no holding back. No censorship. Of course this is not a braless 60’s type situation, just letting what is to be be.

I had been told I would look thinner if my boobs were not so big and therefore to wear these minimizer bras. I fooled no one…the world knows I have big tits and I ain’t skinny.

So for the past few days I have been living with my double D’s front and center. They have moved proudly to the front of the bus like they had been hiding in an attic all this time.

Restriction is tiresome and unatural. It rains and my hair flairs out in loud-mouthed curls. My laugh can and has filled a movie theatre.

I am a full and round person in every sense of the word and it is how I best experience the world. Holding myself in in one place, makes something else pop out extra loudly somewhere else. And who wants to get it in the eye with a crazy double D that just got out of hiding?

Really Bad Day

Mr. Greenspan said that he had found “a flaw in the model that I perceived is the critical functioning structure that defines how the world works."


http://http//www.nytimes.com/2008/10/24/business/economy/24panel.html?hp

I don’t know what is worse, thinking that you really knew how the world works, or believing that you know this, tell the world, and then find you messed up. Exactly what do you tell yourself at the end of that bad day to make yourself feel better? I just don’t think a regular bubble bath, glass of wine, chat on the phone, long walk, good cry, will do it.